It's Not Too Bad Dating a Cheater?
(Next Time Your Man Comes Home with Lipstick On His Collar, Instead of Cursing Him Out. Go and Get Your Magic Eraser)
Don't sit there with your face in your hands, crying and sobbing. You shouldn't blame yourself for your boyfriend's promiscuous conquests. It isn't your fault. This may sound totally and utterly ridiculous, but there are some perks to dating a guy that cheats. (This is the part where you go Uhm-Hmm)
But Let's Get to It:
Makes Him More Appeasing/Attentive to You
When he has other women/chicks on the side, it makes him appreciate you, his main lady, more. Having side pieces make him more thankful for not being single and having indeed found the woman that he wants. Sometimes he's needs to compare, to realize how much his pick is better than the other possible choices.
Doesn't Want to Start Conflicts Because He is Ashamed of Cheating
Your Partner will most likely not want to start fights because they are feeling guilty about what they are doing in the dark. He avoids confrontation or arguments because it stirs up his insecurities about what he shouldn't be doing. Conversely, they may start superficial conflicts to steer you away from them cheating.
He is More Fun, Because He is Less Stressed
Having other women allows him to unwind and relax. Sometimes you aren't able/willing enough to understand where he is coming from or maybe you are tired of his sh!t and could careless. But if you are dating a cheater that can clear his conscience when he gets around you; he will be more fun because the chicks are relievers of his stress. That is less stress that you have to deal with, because it is already addressed before you get to him. Thus making him more positive when you're around him and less uptight.
Gives You More Free Time
Many times I've heard my friends complain about guys that smother them. Well if he is cheating other people will occupy his time, thus giving you more free time. Free time to do things that you need or want to do. No more bugging you about where you're at or whom your with. You can take this time to relax and chill.
The Reason
You will always have a great reason to leave his a$$. You might bumped into a real prince charming and you will then have no excuse not to pursue something with him. You can't say, "I gotta man!", unless you plan to say, "I gotta a cheating no good a$$ man!" But hey, if you like to settle for less than do so. Some people just aren't cut out for greatness.
This blog was intended to help those who date cheaters, but don't want to let them go. So what better way to help them out than to give the perks of dating a cheater...I leave you with a complimentary video.
And if you plan to dump him...
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6 Comments:
lol this shit tru bro
YOU KNOW WHAT ONLY A GUY WOULD THINK SOME SH*T LIKE THIS! LOL! THIS IS NOT RIGHT. CHEATTING IS BAD IN ALL WAYS HOW CAN YOU POSSIBLY LOVE SOMEONE YET YOU STICKING YO D*CK IN OTHER FEMALES THAT AINT LOVE BECUASE IF I GOT CHEATED ON I WOULD CANCEL THAT B*TCH LIKE NENO! LOLz...
-Shavaughnte
Cmonnn nowww give me a break if he's cheating on me he doesnt appreciate me more, it just showss how much he actually doesnt give a fuck, and if he's holding on to me as his main then its because i may have some good qualities that he cant find in the others but im also obviously lacking something to him because he feels the need to go elsewhere....andd ima need him to find a hobby or a nice quiet room to relieve his stress not go F* another girl..
I understand where your coming from completely. But let me be the first to tell you, that most of the time cheating has nothing to do with the cheater's partner. Sometimes it's a just cause.
But since I do agree with you, I believe a stand up mf should jus keep it 1 huned with their partner.
Niggas just love the thought of hitting more than one set of a$$ cheeks ... Real Talk
DMV we here ...
"only a guy would think some shit like this" maybe that's why you should listen.
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