Tuesday, January 19, 2010

I Love U Girl *Jody Voice*




Men and Women usually find it hard to decipher the signals they send one another whether they wave flares or do dubious head nods, the signals somehow get lost along the way from eye to brain and mouth to heart. That is why it's so difficult to know if your guy loves you, even if he hasn't said it. Many guys vary, but I will give you a briefing on things to look out for if your man has developed the googly eyes for your fine azz...



He just wants to hold you and savor your scent.
When a guy loves you, he just wants to be in your presence. You two don't need to do anything special just be around one another. He will play in your hair, caress your body, cuff your breast, and peck on you from time to time. It's bullsh!t, when dudes tell you they don’t like to cuddle.

He makes sacrifices.
When a dude loves his chick, he makes sacrifices. He might sacrifice half of the game to talk with you, he might go to the mall with you (suicide), or even call you and check-in (that's a big one). He does things to please or give you piece(peace) of mind. He will actively do things that you have requested to demonstrate his efforts in trying to please you.

He could careless about what you consider your flaws.
We don’t care about your stretch marks, nappy hair, or that one breast is slightly bigger than the other is. Because every time we see you, we want to be inside of you. Anytime your insecure we will reassure you. Trust and believe we wouldn't be with you if we fretted about your flaws as much as you do.

He becomes a wee-bit jealous/protective
Honestly, he might become jealous or anxious about where you’re going or whom you’re going with. Now it is a difference between being jealous and controlling, a better word would be concerned, but that doesn't exude the emotion that comes from a guy that's fallen for you. Example- Controlling+phone rings= Grabs phone, Concerned+phone rings= "Who is that?, then drops some phrase to offer a confirmed disinterest(but he cares, he will play the cool role). It's no easy way to put it, people get jealous over people or things that they commit their time and effort to like relationships, but there is a proper and improper way of conveying such emotions.

If there are any other ways that your man lets you know he loves you, post em. Educate these chicks that don’t know what love feels like.

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8 Comments:

Blogger Unknown said...

This was really good! Finally you posted it! :)

January 19, 2010 at 11:50 PM  
Blogger theSUNK said...

Thank you... Yeah its about time I did

January 20, 2010 at 12:01 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Nice!!!! You right people do get jealous over people and things that they commit to. It wouldnt be a real relationship if their wasnt a lil bit of jealousy involved.

January 25, 2010 at 12:56 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Amazing if men felt the same way about they kids as for these hoes there wouldn't be so many fatherless children u feel me?

March 25, 2010 at 6:51 PM  
Blogger theSUNK said...

I feel you, but you truly have to love the mother of your child first. Before you can attempt to love a child that you two created. It may be hard to do, but it must be done if you intend to entrust her with being the mother of your child.

There must be a level of respect for the mother of your child.

March 25, 2010 at 9:09 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

well i dont feel u on this because that sounds like the excuse every man uses for being so trifling and pathetic!

March 26, 2010 at 10:17 PM  
Blogger theSUNK said...

I did'nt say there should be or this was an excuse, I just meant it is one footstep forward in loving your child. But it sounds like you have your own personal issues dealing with this matter.

March 27, 2010 at 4:12 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Don't every mother of every black man's child u niggas are just so ruined because lack of guidance from your parents. I just hope u don't have any kids especially a son because if he turns out anything like u i feel sorry for his mother.

March 27, 2010 at 5:02 AM  

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