Thursday, January 14, 2010

WO-Manipulate:Ways to Dominate Your Man Without Him Knowing It


Every man likes dominant women, they just don’t know it. Women have become dominant in society in masculine ways, which is what shies away men. This is why I'm here to show you how to dominate your man in the FOUR most effective ways:

Insinuate
     Dogs bark. Barks are threatening. When people see threats, they run. Don't bark.
Men don’t like to be given orders, they might follow them, but they don’t like them. Every human being has some deviance in them. They want to break rules or not accept barks/orders, so to counter this behavior you insinuate. Insinuation is a technique of easing what you want; people are more accepting to ideas that are persuasive. Even the word persuasive is indicating of its gesture, because it’s a nudge. It's like the spooning nudge that a woman gets at the middle of the night for some action. No man is gonna say at 3 o'clock in the morning bluntly like "Can we f^ck?" Nope, they wouldn't say that because it's disrespectful, because it is an order. They would rather poke you a few times and kiss on your neck to get their point across.

No one wants to be thrown in a pool, they would rather dip their foot in the water to see how cold or warm it is. Therefore, like water adjust things to your partners liking before you blatantly demand them. Moreover, I promise you, he will do what you asked of him quicker and more willingly.

Side note: This is subject to backfire if your man doesn't like you not being straightforward, but it is up to you to feel the situation out.

Seduce
     Out of all these rules seduction is the most effective, full-proof, and easiest to manipulate men with. Women seduce everyday without knowing, usually by just being themselves. Because women are seductive like smooth music, the scent of great food, and mesmerizing sights. To seduce him; be soft, intoxicating, alluring. Men cannot really resist a woman unless she comes off conniving or trifling. But I assume you two are in a a loving and caring relationship, and in that case you'll have him wrapped around your finger like a ring.

Be Interdependent, Rather than Ms. Independent or a Dependant
     This means that even though you’re independent, you still stress that you need him too. It also means even though you need him, you have things other than him that hold your attention. You need a balance of both of these. If you have hobbies or interest that you are focused on this is sexy and he will be sniffing your azz like a dog in heat. Men love women with drive, women that don't cling like a nappy hair to a knitted sweater. Being free and self-conscience sets you apart from all the other set-in-their-ways chicks he's met.

Punish, Forgive, and Request
     If he's ever messed up punish him; don't talk to him for a few days, don't let him grab that booty, show your true emotions. Then quickly get over it as if nothing has happened, this will put him in a state of suspense saying, "Are you ok, what changed since yesterday (or whatever the time frame was)?" This will catch him off guard and make his azz wonder more than Stevie. Finally, you must request. The reason why you request is because he doesn't want to put you back in that prior state you were in. He will then want to appease your every desire.

In conclusion, in no way, shape, or form should you let these techniques dominate you alls relationship. Do what works for the both of you. There is no one-way to love or to be loved, everyone has differences. This was just some advice on understanding the male psyche, male wants, and why these techniques might work better for you.

If you have more ways you can control your man or get him to do what you want, the way you want (in a loving manner) throw me a comment, I would be glad to hear from you.

TheSUNK

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17 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

dis is a good a post very well put not to hard 2 understand, good instruction i can c this developing in to a book

January 14, 2010 at 10:03 PM  
Anonymous staylor said...

very concise and to the point, ilove it

January 15, 2010 at 2:01 AM  
Blogger HeadMistress said...

Love this post...especially the advice about being "Interdependent" - I so needed that...I have a serious problem depending on anyone, esp a man - I got ish to work on...

January 30, 2010 at 12:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

like i said its all so fucken hysterical

March 25, 2010 at 6:57 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Beautiful work.!! I only wish i found this post months ago.!! (:

June 6, 2011 at 1:27 AM  
Blogger theSUNK said...

Try it on your next man then

June 7, 2011 at 5:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Steve Harvey elaborates on your advice about this topic in his book, "how to act like a lady, think like a man." especially the part about isinuating and kind of disguising your orders to men. but i like it.

June 20, 2011 at 1:34 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

So, everytime my man and I get a hotel room, he wants to get tipsy. ( he rarely drinks ) But, i hate it when he gets tipsy and I want him to stop doing. But, everytime I ask him to stop, it turns into a big arguement. So, how do I get him to stop drinking when he sleeps with me without him knowing that i'm demanding it??

June 20, 2011 at 1:41 AM  
Blogger theSUNK said...

First, I need to know "Why does he want to get tipsy before you all have sex?"

My advice as of now would be f^ck em before he gets a hold of that bottle.

June 21, 2011 at 5:48 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Interesting stuff. Have you got any tips on how a man can dominate his woman?

July 18, 2011 at 11:19 AM  
Anonymous TheSunk/TheHallway said...

In all honesty, if a man is handling his business he won't willingly or actively have to dominate his partner.

July 20, 2011 at 12:04 PM  
Anonymous Bianca Owolabi said...

*That don't cling like nappy hair to a knitted sweater* YES!

August 5, 2011 at 8:44 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

not so good
he just want love nthng else..!

September 16, 2011 at 3:52 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

So my bf and I have been dating for 2 weeks. And he makes
A lot of money but he never buys me anything. He claims women
Are expensive. How do I get
Him to buy me things like teddybears and jewelry without seeming
Like a gold digger?

September 28, 2011 at 10:08 PM  
Blogger theSUNK said...

@Anon9/28 Surprise him one day. Set the tone for buying gifts and surprise him. If he's a good man he will up his game and reciprocate.

September 28, 2011 at 11:57 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If Men knew the power that Women have, Men want to be women too!
1) Read lots of books on Men's pyschology. Why most Men's magazines are about cars, golf and videogames instead of home decor?

2) Treat a man as he is, he will remain as he is. Treat a man as he can be, he will be whatever you want him to be.

3) Sex. Big difference on how they have sex. It's short, intense, anywhere, anytime. Foreplay might not be considered.

4) Talk to his mom (secretly). If you don't like the mum, pretend to be. Dig. All of mum's information, priceless.

5) Men will cheat no matter how perfect he thinks you are. Have a backup plan.

March 24, 2012 at 2:16 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

THIS IS ME ALL DAY...

August 28, 2012 at 5:59 PM  

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