I Hope You Find What You're Looking For

Some people need a case load of this sh!t.

When I previously wrote this, I wrote it with anger in my flanges. I had an intent to rip to shreds any person who had ever been a snooper. I abhor people who snoop, who investigate, and who don't have the capacity to trust. But I also understand there are people who lie so much that they aren't worth of a droplet of trust.


Men always wonder why women go through their phones, pants pockets, and condom drawers. As a matter of fact we hate when they do it. Clearly, there is a distinction between being a justified snooper or an insecure hag with no given suspicion nor reasonable motives. The pivotal point I was given by a secure woman was that, "If you are in a relationship and you have to snooped than there is no reason for you to be in that relationship. But women do snoop because it is hard to feel like you are the crazy one, when you know/feel there is a reason behind your suspicion which aren't fueled by insecurities. No one wants to feel like they are crazy."

People snoop, because people know they aren't crazy. Don't be a horrible liar and expect someone not to go through your things to find the actual truth. Lots of times men and women like to make their significant others feel crazy, because we think they are oblivious to our creepish behavior. If someone has been with you for years, why wouldn't you expect for them to notice certain behavioral changes. Snooping is a result of not keeping it 100 with your mate; now if you don't find something you apologize, but if you do- you decide.

The number one problem with women is that they snoop without having any ultimatum for their cheating partner. For that moment they just want to get in "their azz" and tell him about himself. But if you don't have a consequence such as leaving or an ultimatum, then you're simply wasting your precious time by snooping because nothing will change. Why hurt yourself purposely, if you know d@mn well your not going anywhere? He already know you're not going to leave. So he listens to you, then he puts on this charming act to put his conniving d!ck back in you and here you are settling for the same behavior.

I hope you find what you're looking for, because liars will give you the signs and the proof. But you decide what you do with it. You decide if they are worth the salty droplets of pain that roll down your cheeks when you find out the truth. To stay or not to stay? That will be the question.

SN: Men like to say how they hate insecure woman this I can agree with. But if you've cheated on her before don't act like it's the easiest thing for her to forget.

Infidelity Inspires Insecurities~Judge Lynn Toler, Divorce Court