Don't Hurt Her, Please Do?
Women are stronger than men, emotionally. Women have emotional resilience and zeal. They have the ability to have their hearts flung into the valley of the shadow of death and emerge from the rubble unscathed. Women possess this enact ability to recover from heartache, from disappointment. For this I bow, I kneel and praise them. I put rose pedals before their soft, small feet can even touch the nakedness of the earth. Women can be hurt- tears flowing like spring rain, heart pumping aguishly with every pulse, and a stomach which winces from the pain it has experienced. Nevertheless, it is natural for a woman to want an opposing and trialing force so that she may display her strength against the inevitable scorn or pain she will receive. Because threats are potentials of hurt and pain.
You don't believe me? Have you ever been attracted to bad boys? Or called your man a b!tch because he didn't react in the manly way you expected? If you have, then you must ask yourself why?
Women want men(and themselves) to believe that they don't want to be hurt, but in actuality the long-lasting relationships usually have a considerable amount of hurt within in them (or is it the fact that when you are in a long-lasting relationship, it increases your chances of being hurt. Ex. time being proportional to hurt). From cheating to lying, from beatings to prying- women will not stay around for routine, they will stay around for spontaneity in whatever form it comes. Why? Because hurt or betrayal(that can be reconciled) refreshes a relationship, it is the skin that the snake sheds.
Routine is boring. Who wants the most faithful of dogs. Wouldn't you like your dog to bring you a rat he killed from time to time? Or for your dog to run away to parts of the forest you would have most likely never traveled /discovered? Human emotion is adventurous. Partners that can take you from the most extreme emotions have the most lasting impression, but they must have positive things that can outweigh or overshadow the pain/hurt they may cause.
The deepest love has the most breadth(look it up), everything is not peaches and cream. Women can withstand the pain and hurt, more so than men. Our egos are much more fragile, even though I understand that women have egos as well. Nevertheless, if you want to keep her, hurt her a few times. Cry sessions are just as breathe taking as lovemaking. How similar are f^ck faces to cry faces? If you ever noticed f^cking sounds just like domestic violence? Oh, how thin the line is... between love | hate . Hurt her, she can take the heartache because she's stronger than you.
Agree or Disagree?
Labels: #blackgirlsrock, egos, hurt, love, man woman black relationships, pain, women
1 Comments:
Its great you think women have more emotional strength than men, but to blatantly tell men they should intentionally "hurt" their significant others is overboard. Hurt occurs enough unintentionally in relationships. As far as women calling their boyfriends a b!tch, they're doing so not to provoke them to hurt them, but probably because the man can't or won't express himself or his passiveness comes off as carelessness.
I love how you're a man trying to make sense of a woman's mind.
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