Is He Just Showing You Attention or Pursuing You?

When women go out plenty of men give them attention. They shout, talk slick, and try to serenade your panties with overused one-liners that evoke no never mind from you. Plenty of women get attention from men. Men have short attention spans and move from fat ass to big chest in search of one that will really garner their interest. One thing you should know however, is the difference between attention and pursuit.

Attention is short-lived and often times cheap, because many share it. It's given to many in the attempt to capture at lease one. You can give many things your attention and make all of them feel attended to. Most of the time none of those things will feel neglected or left out. In doing so, you can achieve whatever results you wanted with each of these interests. Attention often times doesn't require commitment that's why it's cheap. Attention doesn't require sacrifice, which is why it's ultimately more traveled than pursuit.

In contrast when you talk about pursuit, you're talking about an undivided attention. A pursuit usually involves romance and patience. A man that pursues you doesn't rush and is captivated by your elusiveness. He doesn't view you as tiresome, but as an adventure that is worthwhile. Pursuit is a fixation on an object to obtain and hopefully cherish. When you find a man that is pursuing you rather than just giving you attention you will feel it in the way he treats you and caters to you. You will feel the warmth of his intentions.

Every once and awhile a woman finds a man that is pursuing her. The only problem is that pursuit is hard to keep up if your target or prey isn't majestic and alluring in it's stride.

So ladies, go out and be majestic. Then decipher the difference between attention and pursuit.

Peace...