Just Tell Me the Truth: How to Deal with a Liar

Everyone has dealt with a liar before. You have people in your life right now that lie about things that aren't even worth lying about. They could have a hand full of skittles and you'll ask 'em what they're snacking on, they will lie and say M&Ms on some pathologically lying type sh!t. Sometimes it's not even worth dealing with a liar or entertaining their insults of your intelligence. However there are times it is required that you know the truth. In those cases you have to pick the best time to drill a liar and get the information you need out of them. So these are three of the best times to ask a liar the truth:

When They Need Something
Catch them when they are stuck between a rock and a hard place. When a person is in need they usually have to or are more willing to disclose the truth. If they aren't, you could also push your hand and make them disclose the truth on some gangsta sh!t. Leverage is and will always be the key to discovering the truth in untrustworthy individuals.

When You Catch Them in a Lie
So you may be thinking "Why would I ask them the truth after I've already caught them in a lie?"  Because if what they are lying about is serious enough, they will want to put everything out in the open to avoid pissing you off more. Telling you the entire truth after they've been caught up is a liar's way of apologizing. It's like when a man commits a crime and you got his a$$ by the nuts. He's going give up the whole crew, because he wants a lesser punishment. Alot of people do that crime, but they don't wanna do that time.

When You Already Know the Truth
Say prior to seeing them that you already know the truth, it's the best situation. Preferably you want this because it allows you to see what they look and sound like when they lie. Once you figure out their lying habits they won't ever be able to get sh!t passed you, which is what you want. It can also be your final test to see if they will make a breakthrough and tell the truth, if not then you know where you two stand.

In life and relationships sometimes you cross the path of a liar. Hopefully, they don't deceive you long enough to make you truly care about them and you can cut them off quickly. You don't want to develop feelings for a person that can't be honest, because they aren't worth it and usually never will be.

Have you ever dealt with a liar? What about a person that lied about things that weren't even worth concealing? What eventually happened to your relationship?

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