Tuesday, April 3, 2012

So You Wanna Try Anal?

If you let your man do anal, chances are you're really feeling him. Anal is a rare occurrence for the average fornicator. You have some women that only prefer anal and it doesn't matter as much if they let a guy do it, but these women are hard to find. This blog is for you, the beginner, that wants to try anal someday and for the others that cringe at the mere mention of anal. So You Wanna Try Anal?

Douche First
You all know that the anus is not exactly the cleanest orifice that we have. If you are going to venture in to exploring your second hole then you should clean it first. It's nothing like a man finding out that his woman has douched her anus for some extracurricular fun to add to an already fun bedroom experience. Nothing will relax you more than feeling clean and comfortable.

Play With It in Your Spare Time
Before you and your man get together, take out those dildos/vibrators and discover your a$$ for the first time. Sometimes you just have to turn the lights off, play some music, oil up, and f^ck yourself for that night. Caress the opening of your anus first, thumb it, flex in and out(using your perineum), and put that toy as deep as you can in your second pleasure spot.


Tell Him to Eat It
If he can f^ck your a$$, then he can eat it as well. Many refer to eating a$$ as "tossing salad". Tell that man of yours to toss your salad, if he plans to pop your a$$ cherry. He has to make you want to desire something larger inside of your rectum, before he can shove himself inside of you. To fill a void, you must first create a desire or need for fulfillment.


Lube, Lube, Lube
You can never have too much lube when it comes to anal. Rather its KY, spit, lotion, precum, or butter there's never too much. If this is your first time you should avoid buying lubes with scents or cooling/heating capabilities. Often if you stress your anus those things like scented jellies begin to irritate you.


Relax, Relax, Relax
Take your time. The biggest mistake your man can make is rushing you into anal. That is the exact opposite of what you all should be doing. You should be calm, horny, and wanting of the d!ck. If he is rushing you, tell him "that pu$$y/a$$ ain't going anywhere" and regain the order in the bedroom. Also there's nothing wrong with drinking a little vodka, wine or dark before you try anal for the first time- have fun.

If All Else Fails, Try Anal in the Shower
Sex is usually best done in the bedroom, but that doesn't always go hand and hand with anal sex. Sometimes you have to hop in the shower with your boo and let him help you get acclimated with this new venture. In the shower with the warm water running over you, it will be harder for you to tense your anus. Which will force you to relax, this sounds oxymoronic but it will work. Trust me. You can also lather up and use the soap as a lubricant for the anus.

Have you ever tried anal? Was it a good or a bad experience? If it was bad, what went wrong? Could you ever see yourself trying anal? Have you ever had your salad tossed? When alone, have you ever played with or explored your second pleasure spot?

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7 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have tried anal a few times and to be honest its hit or miss... i've had it where i'm like oh shit, this is what those girls are talking about and liked it, & i have had the ouch wait hold on stop kind before too.. with the same guy... i always enema before and use lots of lube just sometimes it feels great, sometimes good & sometimes it hurts...

April 3, 2012 at 3:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I've tried it once and like anonymous above me said it HURT lol, but after reading this I might just give it a try ;)

April 3, 2012 at 3:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lol this is interesting

April 3, 2012 at 11:17 PM  
Anonymous porshiajay said...

Haven't tried anal in a long time. It was always a treat for the boo and I personally got no enjoyment out of it. I took one for the team lol. I did try double penetration with him doing anal and me having my vibrator in my vag. I guess that was okay.

April 4, 2012 at 1:26 AM  
Blogger All The Single Ladies said...

I like anal NOW. I had to get used to it though. I was dating a guy who wanted to experiment with anal. #worstsexever. But I was diggin him and willing to give it another chance. So I watched gay porn. All your suggestions are what I learned from gay porn sites and work! That was 4 or 5 years ago. But now I am a willing anal participant which is always pleasantly surprising to a man!! Anal is sexually unique. All women should experiment with it....honestly, they ain't gonna have an orgasm from it but they most definitely will appreciate the kinkiness of it all and will love how a man reacts!!

April 11, 2012 at 10:45 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Anal is definitely what you make of it. The first time I was penetrated was supposedly an "accident" according to my ex. I was getting it from the back (the real wet, sweaty, and slippery kinda good) and he claimed it was an accident even though I had just told him he had almost entered the "wrong hole" as he was getting a little carried away a few pumps prior to that! Anywho... the initial entrance was absolutely horrendous! Mainly because it was unexpected and I was pissed the freak off! Thereafter, we discussed it and I eventually decided to just give it a real try. I admit, I begin to enjoy it at times as an occasional part of our "healthy" sex life. As a matter of fact, contrary to what @ALL THE SINGLE LADIES said about not reaching orgasm, for myself personally, it was actually opposite. I know one particular time I had the best "shivers down your spine, make your whole body and all 10 toes tingle" kinda orgasm! As a matter of fact, I've read from numerous sources that anal sex is actually a better way reach the highly sought after (and many times never found) G-spot! Given the fact my ex didn't have the biggest dick in the world, I was comfortable experimenting with him. However, my "next" was much more blessed (yea, I miss that old thing at times) and I did not even consider trying that with him! Mama didn't raise a fool! You have to pick and choose your battles and that one wouldn't have been a victory for my second hole! Also, please NOTE: your asshole WILL lose elasticity if you do it too often!!! That's the main reason I left that fantasy alone. My sister worked in the ER and told me plenty of horror stories so I felt there was no need for me to be another example! So for all of you considering it, take your time, enjoy and practice SAFE SEX!

April 12, 2012 at 10:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I myself luv anal sex. Yes I truly enjoy it, and much prefer to only hav anal sex. The feeling is so freaking wonderful. Total different feeling u'll ever have. I sum times, well a lot of times do it myself w/ my countless toys. Mmm. Smh. It jus feels so freaking wonderful. It's definitely not 4 every1. Getting ur hair pulled at the sme time, and getting those enjoyable bites.............nothing like it. But.....I like to be laying on my back. Ooowwweeeeee!!!!!!!

August 10, 2012 at 1:25 AM  

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