Do I Owe U Sex?

Once you have s3x with someone for a substantial amount of time, is it your duty to always satisfy their needs?

In communications and health, they discuss the social exchange theory, which is the exchange of needs and wants from one partner to the other. Basically, people use each other no matter how you look at it. And if one of the members of said relationship is dissatisfied sooner or later the relationship ends. There are certain needs that must be met to keep a good thing going...so what happens when the sex comes to a halt? Should the other partner be upset or feel abandoned? After all it is your body and you can do whatever you please with it. Why should you feel obligated to have sex when you don't want to anymore?

When you stop giving it up to someone, that's a sticky situation. Do you make an announcement or do you duck and dodge their advances until they eventually stop asking to get it on? Most happen to dodge the person- afraid to speak up and tell them that either the well is dry or that the dope d!ck is done for. By dodging them, then subconsciously we would truly believe we owe them sex, especially if we say "no" in a subtle or passive aggressive way because we are avoiding confrontation.

Here's the two reasons why a man and a woman might feel as though they owe a person sex:

In bed it's usually up to the man to put it down, somehow sex falls on his shoulders or d!ck for that matter and he is forced to perform. Now if his performance is lackluster, than he feel as though he owes you sex or another shot of good stuff, maybe for our own selfish reasons, but we do.

Women, on the other hand, usually hold onto sexual relationships even if it's not exactly monogamous. Women feel like they owe, when the relationship is consistent. They feel the guy is entitled to them because of his persistence. At times they have even have sex when they don't want to, hoping that the guy won't stray away from the cat and find some other kittens willing to play with his balls of yarn.

In defense of the creditor, I don't believe that it is ok to just Abandon the P^ssy. I've been guilty of laying down a mean pipework throughout the pink municipals and leaving the city plan on the fritz with no foreseen resuming of groundwork. Abandoning p^ssy or d!ck is the equivalent of abandoning a person emotionally. Is it really cool to leave p^ssy high and dry or d!ck hard and low because you just simply want to stop? Some couples that know things aren't going to work out but love the sex usually come up with a "this is the last time all-out f^ck session," and that sounds like the most coherent solution to me. So my questions to you are as follows...

What would make you stop having s3x with someone? Have you ever felt like you owed someone s3x? Have you ever believed someone else owed you s3x? How do you tell your partner that you don't want to have s3x with them anymore? If someone abruptly stops having s3x with you, do you believe you have the right to ask why?

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